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[lynx]

The other night a bunch of my friends got together and were drinking. We are all "straight" and as far and we all know we are all perfectly straight. Anyways I ended up sharing a bed with a particularly cute young guy(to young for anything to happen). Anyways we ended up cuddling most of the night. I had always thought that I wouldn't like cuddling or spooning with a guy but this felt... nice... kinda seemed natural. Just wondering what other guys views are on this. Do you like cuddling or spooning with guys or is it get in get out?

[motobi]

Never tried it. sounds like more fun than cuddling with the wife,if ya know what I mean. (if ya want to keep the beer cold, park it next to my wife's ass)

[shybirdex]

Yes lynx,

I too love to cuddle with a guy, it is awesome to feel another mans warmth and different.

[Higibabe]

Now you talking my language!!

To me Cudling and spooning creates a feeling of belonging, of closeness and caring. Me can do it all night long Yummy.....

I have know a couple straight guys that have landed up cuddling and spooning when in a situation where a bed was shared with another guy. In short not necessary limited to being gay or Bi. Straight guys do it...but wont admit it readliy though....

[Marky]

 lynx, on Jan 28 2009, 05:12 AM, said:

The other night a bunch of my friends got together and were drinking. We are all "straight" and as far and we all know we are all perfectly straight. Anyways I ended up sharing a bed with a particularly cute young guy(to young for anything to happen). Anyways we ended up cuddling most of the night. I had always thought that I wouldn't like cuddling or spooning with a guy but this felt... nice... kinda seemed natural. Just wondering what other guys views are on this. Do you like cuddling or spooning with guys out get in get out?

Hi new on this site so hi to u all.....I love spooning and cuddling it's a great feeling specily after sex!!!!!!!

[sevenhard4u]

I am a cuddler with a woman. Not sure about the emotional level I want to share with a guy but I'm sure I will work it out with the right guy.

[smoof]

cuddles and spooning,,,

yes please

[lynx]

 sevenhard4u, on Jan 28 2009, 02:41 PM, said:

I am a cuddler with a woman. Not sure about the emotional level I want to share with a guy but I'm sure I will work it out with the right guy.

That's exactly how I feel....well should say felt. There was nothing sexual or even overly emotional about my cuddling experience but it sure felt nice. I'm still not sure how I would feel cuddling with a guy I just had sex with but I think I am one step closer haha.

[stephen666]

i love it . its great to feel intimate and connected after sex. spooning just feels natural and sweet
falling asleep when spooning is nice cause you wake up and your still spooning

[Pgh Steve]

Cuddling and Spooning...with or without sex...man or woman...YES!

[Gunner]

What can I say I LOVE SKIN, with that said I love to cuddle, I have noticed a big dif. in the feel of overall skin
between a girl and a guy. One of the things I miss about not having another guy in our relationship.

[booboo69er]

I have to agree about the difference between a man's skin and a woman's. I actually really enjoy the feel of another man's flesh and sucking on a man's nipples and nuzzling his neck and tounging and nibbling on his ears just seems even more erotic than sucking on a woman's breasts and neck and ears. I love the softnes sof a woman and her natural smell - but a guy is so different - and in ways - I think - better. I also have experienced another man's naked, hairy chest and body against my naked back and it was awesome!! The touch of another man on my cock and balls is also so different from the soft touch of a woman.. I love it when my wife plays with my balls but the more positive, firm touch of a man is really hot!

[Rafe Day]

For me, it depends on the relationship. With some men in my history, cuddling, spooning, or falling asleep in a sweaty tangle has seemed entirely natural -- in fact, for me, it was most of them. Being able to relax, let down your guard, and feel safe with another person in such a vulnerable position is an incredibly close bonding experience. But again (I've said something like this before, so bear with me), I think that what you're comfortably willing to do with another man (or woman) says as much about how you feel about yourself and your desires as it does about the other person and the relationship (such as it is) that you've built between you. I was an enthusiastic sexual participant with men long before I was able to honestly acknowledge or be entirely comfortable with what we were doing. But I do know that, just like the women, I fondly remember the most important men in my life at least as much for the "before" and "after" surrounding our sex than I do for the act itself.

[MWMbi4U]

I agree with Phg Steve and Higibabe. I lave to feel a naked guy next to me; with or without sex.

[guybi]

I am with the general consensus. Cuddling, spooning and all other forms of physical intimacy rock my world.
They not only have been pleasurable to me but have added much depth and value to my sexual experiences which have left me thankful for having had meaningful and memorable experiences with men.

[philtern]

 MWMbi4U, on Jan 29 2009, 08:56 PM, said:

I agree with Phg Steve and Higibabe. I lave to feel a naked guy next to me; with or without sex.

Ditto... The sex is exhilerating (?spell?) but the closeness is awesome!

[philtern]

 stephen666, on Jan 29 2009, 03:43 AM, said:

falling asleep when spooning is nice cause you wake up and your still spooning

it makes it a short journey for "step 2" as well!
Here here! Love spooning

[Trip]

I love to cuddle and to spoon. I much prefere to cuddle with a woman, but i love spooning with aguy, esp when i am the on being spooned and i feel his hard member pulsing between my legs..ahh so hot

[willy]

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Also, skin hunger. Has anyone else heard of it? That's why people get sick or depressed from lack of contact. (Non-sexual contact). It's a shame so many people are anti-touch or only equate touch with sex.

I agree Charlsy - I remember many years ago when my wife was pregnant and had been in hospital for a few weeks, I was desperate for some skin contact.
What happened was my mate came round and we were soon naked and enjoying each others bodies (we had been intimate before but only mutual masturbation) ..........
I can remember how great it was to feel another human touching me and handling my body as it had been so long since I had skin contact with anyone - of course I had also been without sexual contacat too for a long time so he ended up giving me a lovely orgasm by masturbating me - so much better than all the solo ones I had been having every day.

[Vanxander]

 Charlsy Boi, on Feb 5 2009, 02:52 AM, said:

To be perfectly honest, I prefer spooning/cuddling to another more.

I think men, as a whole, suffer from a lack of physical affection. Maybe it's cultural. We're not supposed to be tender or emotional. I totally understand guys being horny and just wanting to get it off. That's fine. But I wish more people were into hugs and cuddles.

I had a friend. (Straight male friend). Before he got married, he would hug me on special occasions. After he got married, he wouldn't even hug me. He only offered me a handshake, which I thought was really inadequate and disappointing.

I don't know what he was thinking. Now he has a wife he doesn't touch people anymore? He's a "real man"?

Also, skin hunger. Has anyone else heard of it? That's why people get sick or depressed from lack of contact. (Non-sexual contact). It's a shame so many people are anti-touch or only equate touch with sex.

We do suffer from a lack of affection. I think that's why some people don't realize how nice I am since I have trouble with words sometimes.
Skin hunger? I haven't heard of that but that would probably explains a good amount of depression I feel.

And to whoever said something about feeling the warmth of another guy against you. Yeah that is nice. I was riding home last night with 5 other people in a small sedan so there were 4 of us, all guys, crammed into the back seats. I was on the outside, but nevertheless, I did feel a great amount of warmth coming off of the guy next to me. I didn't bring it up of course. And the guy was pretty cute, he had tanned skin and long black curly hair and he was of an athletically slender build.