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The quest for answers continues......


Hello again!

It has been a while since I last posted a blog, felt the time was right.

I'm confused. I don't know how to identify my emotions. What am I feeling?
I have tried to live a stoic lifestyle. To set aside emotion and live completely in rational, logical thought.
I have a bit of a temper that I mostly keep in check. I had...   Read Full Entry
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The day I found this site and other things :)


I have been a member here for about a week now, give or take. At first reluctant. Scared... Nervous.. All those things... It's another site I need to hide from my wife. While she knows about my bi side she's not o.k. with it. I get the feeling if she knew about me being bi prior to marriage the marriage wouldn't have happened. ...   Read Full Entry
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The Journey Continues


It has been some time since I updated this blog. I have a new job and work long hours, which is why I haven't been on much lately. My marriage seems to be back on track. A couple months ago my wife decided that she also wanted to try to make the marriage work. I was skeptical and there were issues that we had not yet resolved. It took...   Read Full Entry
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Exchange


Me: Omg I just read this and it made me sad. I don't want to let you go!! Your the best friend I've ever had!"If you love someone, don't try to be just a friend. It won't work. It will hurt, it will kill you, and it will put you in hell. If you are in love with a friend, just let him go. Or embrace the devil."...   Read Full Entry
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A Weekend of Churches


I went to two concerts in former churches this weekend, and it was pretty spiritual...In a musical sense, not a religious one. I've been making an effort to get out more, as part of the larger effort to accept my bisexuality. It's been going really well, and the shows were great (The first night was bluegrass, and the second was a...   Read Full Entry
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What Do I Really Want?


Last weekend, I went to my best friend's wedding. She and I have been best friends for 15 years and in many ways is the only person in the world who truly understands me. While there was never anything romantic between us, I see her as a sort of soul mate, in the sense she understands me when no one else does. I was honestly thrilled to see...   Read Full Entry
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Came out to my best mate


I don't see my best mate very often as we live a long distance apart, but I was staying at his over the weekend. We've been friends since the age of five and know each other inside out. There's very little we don't know about each other.

Anyway, I met him and we went for a quick pint together. He's married with a lot of kids...   Read Full Entry
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Time to get started on this blog thing...


So I've fully accepted myself as a bisexual man, and realized that I'm even pansexual. Everyone I know is fine with that, and nobody gives me crap for it. The ones that know about him are accepting of my boyfriend (all 3 of those people) and are nice to him. Everything is hunky dory right? Nope.

I still have one more major thing about my...   Read Full Entry
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The only thing I'd change... can't be changed...


So yeah, I feel kinda bleh tonight, so I guess I'll write a dark entry for the evening...

You know how you can ask someone what they'd change about themselves, and you get answers like "my nose," "my eyes," "my hair," etc?

What would I change? Half of my ethnic background. Ever since I was little, I was...   Read Full Entry
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The Return Of that guy...


Why yes, I am going to exhaust every pun I possibly can.
So, I'm bored, I'm alone and I figured I'd start up a blog in case any one wants to read it and live vicariously through my adventures.
First things first, I'll restate these laws:

You agree, through your use of this service, that you will not use this Blog system to post...   Read Full Entry
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Out To My Ex


So things have calmed at home. Mom's pretending nothing has changed and is pushing for more therapy as if I can be fixed when my therapist is quite happy for me ironically and is keeping tabs on my coming out process. Dad is getting used to it and doesn't seem to care a whole lot. without fanfare let's get to the bulk of this...   Read Full Entry
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Work? I've tried it and it's not for me, thank you!


So, I recently started a summer job in an office. I'm aware that that might just be the single dullest sentence ever committed to paper but it's really having the most startling affect on me. Looking around the room all I can see is grey. Grey carpet, grey furniture, even the staff are dressed mostly in grey. A couple of the ladies...   Read Full Entry
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I'll try not to seem to hipster or anything


So traditional bloggers annoy me with their jean shorts and fake, think framed glasses but I want to start one to expose others to my bull shit and fuckery because I honestly believe that it is worth a read. I'll start with introductions. Hello, my name is Bobby and I have just finished out my freshman year of college. I am currently at home...   Read Full Entry
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New to this


So my name is Kevin obviously, I'm 26 and I've liked men for the last 10 months, I recently broke up with my girlfriend so I could explore my bisexual side. I really have not felt attracted to women in a little while, I think my brain is just on man overload for all the year I missed out on. I have not really decided weather or not this...   Read Full Entry
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Possibly the most pertinent and profound posting I have ever read here - thank you steven64


Posted Today, 11:34 PM

steven64, on 13 February 2011 - 10:57 PM, said:

Hi Brandon,

Just sat reading your post and found it very thought provoking.

I believe that we are all born this way, it just takes time for some of us for it to materialise.

What you are going through today is what I started to go through at the age of 30. Questioning my...   Read Full Entry
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Testing testing 10.01.11


Seeing if this upgrade has enabled the blogs to work properly... http://www.shybi-guy...//party0023.gif




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New to this...Hoping to find good guidance and advice


Im a family and goal oriented guy not understanding certain feelings of attraction to men that have come over me lately. I've never been with a dude and I dont understand why the feelings are surfacing at this point in my life. I'm in the Army and I'm also a college student. Throughout my late teens and as of late I've had sex and...   Read Full Entry
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Come on In...the water's fine


So i'm new here... and I need to build up rapport with the site before I can change my profile, add a pic, enter chat, etc....etc....
I am okay with it, but it is frustrating.

So I title my blog "some assembly required" - get it??? okay...not so funny

My first impressions coming to this site was nervousness...then realizing there...   Read Full Entry
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First attempt


Hi everyone, Well I have been looking for a serious site for bimen, looks like I have found the ultimate one. Plenty of problems though as most of the things I want to do as a new boy just give me error messages and will not let me continue. First job must be to udate my profile, any tips to get round the error :D   Read Full Entry
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Boy do I have questions! lol


:D I've been trying to prioritize the questions in my head, yes I like organization of sorts, and here is the number one thing I feel I need help or advice with. I Love my family but I don't know how they stand me at times. My emotions go all over the map from minute to minute it seems. I'm usually pretty positive but when I feel Bi...   Read Full Entry


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